The Problem with “No Problem”

iStock_000005123017Small1I have a problem with the response, “No problem.”

My old fashioned values have me believing that “You’re welcome” or “My pleasure” is the most gracious way to answer “Thank you.”

For a long time I figured it was my somewhat overzealous ideals about manners that had me cringing whenever I hear it. One of my favorite colleagues says it so I really had to let go.

Then a few weeks ago a friend ranted about it at a gathering.  Most of the people in the group agreed. I was vindicated!

What is Good Enough? 80% or 90%?

rock-stack-extra-right-hand 600x599How do you define “good enough”?

How do you know when a project is done? Sauce seasoned perfectly?

Years ago a boss told me, “Your version of okay is most people’s really good (picture me smiling). And I do not mean that as a compliment (picture me frowning). Stop revising and get this document out the door!” After my ego recovered from it’s dramatic turnaround I realized how much agony went into my work and how little benefit was achieved, especially when writing.

A few years after that I heard the term analysis paralysis, and was grateful to have a term for my over-zealousness. (My father did not use his Mac computer for weeks after purchasing it because he had not finished reading the manual. I think I know where I acquired this penchant for analysis and planning.)

KC_OverTheHump_Masthead 230x200Then I learned a new philosophy, “80% and out the door.” I embraced that for a while, but realized there were times when 98% was what I wanted and others when 60% was right.

Today my mantra is “done is better than perfect.”* It helps me push send on this email newsletter when I have only reviewed it twice, or have just one more thought to add; or share project ideas with colleagues when I really want to research them more. I think this takes courage,

  • to know my colleagues and friends will still like me and my work even if it’s not always exceptional
  • to hear feedback and new ideas with an open mind
  • to know I am okay when others disagree with me

What about you? Any great mantras for moving forward? How do you know what’s good enough?

Joyful regards,

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* I learned this from amazing interior designer Laura Robbins. Thanks!